There Is No Quick Fix for a Lifetime of Abandoning Yourself
Paige Elizabeth
Founder and Coach
You can’t shortcut your way out of patterns you refuse to confront.
Not with another diet.
Not with another relationship.
Not with another productivity hack, pill, peptide, or payout.
Everyone wants the result — the glow, the love, the money — but few are willing to face the mirror.
The Hidden Cost of Self-Abandonment
If you feel like an imposter, start by looking at how often you betray your truth.
If you’re confused why someone keeps abandoning you, ask yourself when you stopped showing up for yourself.
If you hate your body or feel burned out at work, trace the loop of punishment, neglect, and overcompensation that got you here.
There is no magic protocol that can undo a lifetime of self-betrayal.
You cannot biohack your way out of a body that’s been forced to live in contradiction.
The Problem Is Deeper Than What You See
Your boss, your partner, your bank account, or your skin aren’t the root problem.
They’re reflections of your imprints, habits, and unresolved wounds.
Here’s the harsh truth:
Yes, you can build an empire on shame or fear of exposure.
You can “succeed” while suppressing your truth.
You can craft the perfect persona, hit your targets, and be admired.
But you will always feel like a fraud — because somewhere deep down, you know it’s not real.
The Body Can’t Survive Chronic Contradiction
That gap between who you really are and who you’re performing to be?
It will burn you alive.
And eventually, your body will shut it down — because the nervous system cannot survive in chronic contradiction.
You weren’t meant to live in exile from yourself.
Stop Chasing the Fix. Start Confronting the Fracture.
Healing doesn’t begin with doing more.
It begins with no longer abandoning who you actually are.
When you’re ready to reclaim that — for real — the transformation doesn’t just happen in your mind. It happens in your nervous system, your relationships, your work, and the way you inhabit your own skin.
Because the truth is:
Self-abandonment is the wound.
Self-reclamation is the cure.
Ready to stop living in contradiction and start living in alignment?
Join my free educational webinar to understand the root of burnout, nervous system dysregulation, and how to finally stop betraying yourself.